Hello everybody. I just want to share a thought with you today. I noticed something that's like a trend among the sexes and would like to share a thing or two.
Ladies, you are creatures of Love. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. The only person you can change I a relationship is you. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle, if you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better”…You’ll be mad at yourself later for staying when things are not better. Okay, let me slow down a bit. I know there's no man that's perfect but there are good men out there.
Learn to maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you but respect him. If something bothers you, speak up in diplomacy and with courtesy. Never 'borrow' someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending. compromise is a two way street. Personally, I believe if he wants you, He's going to wait till he marries you. Don't be scared that he's going to have it somewhere else. Why would he want to give himself to someone who he's not going to be with over a few organs. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
Dating can be fun, oh yeah it can be but try to be the answer to some of his questions and solution to some of his problems even if he doesn’t turn out to be The Mr Right you wanted. Be the best you can be. You're worth more than gold. When you finally meet The Man, you're in his life as a wife and not a knife, to build him up and not cut him down. God has placed so much power for productivity and fruitfulness in you. That's why He called you WOMAN- A Man with a womb.
Joshua ONAIWU,
The Joshwinterz Group.
Twitter: @iam_joshwinterz
Facebook: facebook.com/joshwinterz
Email:joshua_onaiwu@hotmail.com
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http://www.trevocorporate.com/coach/onaiwujoshua
Ladies, you are creatures of Love. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. The only person you can change I a relationship is you. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle, if you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better”…You’ll be mad at yourself later for staying when things are not better. Okay, let me slow down a bit. I know there's no man that's perfect but there are good men out there.
Learn to maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you but respect him. If something bothers you, speak up in diplomacy and with courtesy. Never 'borrow' someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending. compromise is a two way street. Personally, I believe if he wants you, He's going to wait till he marries you. Don't be scared that he's going to have it somewhere else. Why would he want to give himself to someone who he's not going to be with over a few organs. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
Dating can be fun, oh yeah it can be but try to be the answer to some of his questions and solution to some of his problems even if he doesn’t turn out to be The Mr Right you wanted. Be the best you can be. You're worth more than gold. When you finally meet The Man, you're in his life as a wife and not a knife, to build him up and not cut him down. God has placed so much power for productivity and fruitfulness in you. That's why He called you WOMAN- A Man with a womb.
Joshua ONAIWU,
The Joshwinterz Group.
Twitter: @iam_joshwinterz
Facebook: facebook.com/joshwinterz
Email:joshua_onaiwu@hotmail.com
BB Pin:270B1423
http://www.trevocorporate.com/coach/onaiwujoshua
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